Giving someone love doesn’t mean giving them more attention than anyone else. It means allocating the amount and the kind they need. It is an expression of truth and honesty that is free of self-obsession and compulsion. It is more than the desire to fill a lonely void. It is a complex matrix of goodness and self-preservation that illuminates the life of two lives.
If our “love” is born from the need of desperate emotional greed everyone will see and feel the fruit you offer is corrupted at the source of the tree. This will lead others to stray from the energy you are willing to give, because they will instinctively know your energy is sour and spoiled.
Love must be pure and free and powered by confidence and strength if you seek to be loved in the way you need.